71 comments for “Ardhanaaree’shwaram

  1. sajeev
    February 21, 2013 at 9:14 AM

    super blog lal sir

  2. niranjan
    February 21, 2013 at 9:25 AM

    good one

  3. smitha nair
    February 21, 2013 at 9:26 AM


  4. saleena
    February 21, 2013 at 9:27 AM

    relevant thoughts

  5. meena
    February 21, 2013 at 9:28 AM


  6. Vineesh At
    February 21, 2013 at 9:33 AM

    subep words Laletta….!!!!

  7. abhi
    February 21, 2013 at 9:43 AM

    Laletta ella purashmarum streekalum chindikkenda vishayam.Ethu vayikkunvar enkilum avrude manasaile sthree purusha sankalpangalkku veykthamaya disa nalkkan kazhiyatte ennu prathikkunnu.

  8. Rajkumar
    February 21, 2013 at 9:44 AM

    Dear Mohanlal Sir,

    This is the first time am visiting in this blog……am very much impressed…… a days am very much affraid about my niece who is 9yrs old……in this old they are innocent they dont know what is good n what’s bad……if she want to go to tuition or Drawing class we r sending my nephew to accompany her… we r very much bothered about that… my chilhood we where free to go any where not only me but also my sister and other’s… a day’s we cannot think that for a second.
    we have to get solution for this……each and everybody should fight for that…….hope for the best India……..
    Thank u sir…..u had given a chance to write my opinion…..


  9. gopakumar
    February 21, 2013 at 11:32 AM

    suprb words lalettaa… kudos…

  10. February 21, 2013 at 12:23 PM
  11. Deepa
    February 21, 2013 at 2:00 PM

    Being a girl very anxious and tensed about even the next moment in front of us nowadays..This is really an inspirational writing from you and hope people who read this can understand in the best way and influence the message in the right manner …thank you sir!!!

  12. February 21, 2013 at 2:01 PM

    I can only say this much : A brilliant blog from a brilliant actor – you never cease to amaze!

  13. February 21, 2013 at 2:03 PM

    I can only say this much: A brilliant blog from a brilliant actor. You never cease to amaze!

  14. February 21, 2013 at 2:04 PM

    A brilliant blog from a brilliant actor. You never cease to amaze!

  15. February 21, 2013 at 2:25 PM

    nammal sthreekale bahumanichu ennu parayunna kaalathum pariganana nalki ennu parayunna kaalathum rejectionum negativityum koodundayirunnu ennanu thonnunnathu.palappozhum charithrathilekku nokki mahathaya samskaram ennu parayaannallathe,ee positive-negative attitudes ella kaalathum undaayirunnille ? palarum paranja pole radhayaayalum seethayaayalum jeevitham rejectionte thanne.”Ekapoorushan” shivante shakthikkupolum homakundathilekku chandendi vannu.Mugalnmarude charithrathiloode aagra fortilude nadakkumpol aanu manssil ennpozhum imagine cheyyan sramichittulla anthapurangal kandathu.kashtichu oraalkku nadakkavunna sthalam,randu kattilukalkkulla sthalam.lokam mahaanennu vilicha Akbaraayirunnathre midukkan.adehathinte anthappurathile 10 % ne adeham kandittupolumillennu athe charithram.enikkavide adakkiya ethrayo karachilukal anubhavikkan kazhinju.ippozhum paaramparyam paranju vivahabandhthinte bhangi nilanirthan mattoru tharam slvery anubhavikkunna 80 %.appo evidanu peedanam illathathu.Swayam saaktheekarikkukayum avanavanaayi eneettunilkkanum sthreejanangalkkum,avayavangalude bharam nokkathe manushyanaayi kaanan baakkiyullavarkkum kazhiyumaarakatte..

    (sthrainam oru purushane ethra poornanakkunnu ennathinte jeevikkunna udaaharanam thankal thanneyanu.Abhinayathinte karyamaanu parayunnathu.ellarum flexibility ennu vilikkunnathine njan angane vilikkunnu.krithyamaaya sthraina cheruvayulla thankal abhinayathinte vaibhavamaayathil enthu albhutham ?)

  16. February 21, 2013 at 2:53 PM

    good article on ongoing situation.

  17. February 21, 2013 at 3:40 PM

    Hai sir,
    Iam a member of TCA for the past 2.5 years and i have been reading all your blogs till date.iam also having a hardcopy of the compilation of your blogs ‘hridayathinte kayyoppu’.actually i love reading your blogs as it always have a very relevant content written in a beautiful poetric way.there is a very great writer within you.
    in this blog u have written about the medias trying to report the rape cases across the country after the delhi incident.
    you are definitely doing a great job by raising your voice against such incidents happening all over.i hope that you continue doing this by writing such great articles and also acting in films which contain socially relevant messages such as spirit,karmayodha etc.
    hoping that this article too gets media and social attention as happened in the case of your article on soumya incient,


  18. ammu
    February 21, 2013 at 3:41 PM

    gr8 words…

  19. Deepak Divakar
    February 21, 2013 at 3:41 PM

    laletta.. vayichu.. nannayitund…
    Nice thoughts… 🙂
    Like (y)

  20. February 21, 2013 at 4:00 PM

    Your blog opened in my mind my memories of one of the most beautiful human being i met some years back who was both man & woman together. Ardhanarieswara, is not just a concept or an imagination – It is an experience that India felt, saw and lived.Yes, it is great ‘samkalpam”, as Indians put. This word is fabulous – for more than a decade i was & i am chasing this word – “Samkalpam”. I dont know what all to write – so many things are flooding into my heart as i think of this word !!

    There are three Kashi’s. One of them is called the secret Kashi – Gupt Kashi. It is in Uttranchal. There is a beautiful small temple dedicated to this samkalpam of Ardhanarishwara, where life is respeced and revered as Ardhanarieswara. There is one temple near Salem also in a Hill, where the same bhava of life is celebrated.

    I remember Osho too – he speaks about man and woman as two wings of a bird called life !!
    While speaking on Man/Woman relations he us to say dont take me as Man or a Woman – take me as consciousness !!. India has always potrayed consciousness as the togetherness of shiva and shiva kami and here in India now we are killing, torturing, tearing our better part apart. We are becoming perverts detonating our own selves. Our national capital has become the rape capital of the world – what a shame ??. Day before yesterday or so 3 minor girls aged 11, 8 and 6 were tortured, killed and dumped in Maharashtra. It is hard these days to have food or sleep peacefully. Our sleeping Judiciary, nerveless policing, retarded bureaucracy and perverted politics is making all the blessings this land inherited into huge curses that will eliminate us. Our system is full of unintelligent , unimaginative deaf and dumb tricksters. They are delaying and postponing everything. What has legal and executive practices of some 16th or 17th century Europe to do in a 21st century India. Look at our Judicial practices – why does it take days to start the ‘process’. Why can’t it begin the very moment the machinery is aware of an incident. Why can’t we have judges, process, systems that goes to crime scene then and there and starts the correction measures. Why do we have to wait years to conclude ?. Incidents against woman and children are not rocket science and doesn’t need years. A willing system can solve it in a matter of hours. Justice delayed is justice denied. If our system doesn’t wake judicially, executive wise, educationally, culturally as early as it can then a civil war is on its way !!

    Probably we all must turn and dig deep into our ‘blessed inheritance’ and empower its’s “samkalpams” to avoid catastrophe that is on it’s way. Lot of things have become “vikalpams”. Things are getting out of hand slowly and we are on a suicidal route. Land of the perverts is not a good idea !!

    Thank you for this timely blog that brings to fore “Samkalpams” that we should consciously,
    seriously interfere and balance in our days !

    That half man – half women i met, told me once -“There is no power outside man”. Hope the tears/memories of those 3 small children, Jyothy and hundreds of them will not be lost and will empower all of us to a ‘balance’ of life that gives safety, security and shade to the needed, medical support to the perverted and to our ‘systems’ and as a country lets resolve and learn to respect and accept our better halves as our own hearts !!

    It is said without Radha rani, krishna was nothing !!
    How true !!



  21. February 21, 2013 at 4:31 PM

    Until before the Colonial influences, Sex, nudity and Women were important part of Indian life. We started aping the west since then – which was actually highly influenced by radical Christian thoughts – which looked at all the above negatively. Even after the colonialists left, we followed their Elizabethan/Victorian morality or hypocrisy when it came to Sex, nudity and women. However, by 60’s the world had taken a more modern and opposite view of these things (special impetus to respect to women), but we decided to stick to these negative concepts and consider them as our culture. In our real culture Women had a very prominent rule, sex was not just meant for making children and nudity was not immoral. (no wonder Kamasutra was written in this land)

    All anthropologists agree that all animals and humans sing or dance to attract the opposite sex. Even we were like that. But as part of our change to colonial influenced culture (also strengthened by the independance movement – which is when our dances were even named), we now consider dance and music all a part of attaining god.

    And now anybody trying to speak against this hypocrisy is termed immoral.

  22. February 21, 2013 at 4:36 PM

    Dear Lalettan,
    lalettan vittupoya adhva thurannu parayan madikkunna oru vishayam koodi namukku ithodukoodi cherthu parayendiyirikkunnu. Ente abhiprayathil, sthreeyilum purushanilum chila vythyastha swabhava savisheshathakal ullavar undavam. chilarkku ethratholam bhogam nadathiyalum thripthi varilla (it can be seen both in men & women). itharakkar minority anu. Avarkkanu nalla kudumba jeevitham undavathathum. atharakkaranu ee olikyamara vakkunnathum, vesyakale thedi pokunnathum,anyante allenkil suhrithinte bharyaye attempt cheyyunnathum vikalamaya laingikatha kanikkunnathum. thudakkathile ivare thirichariyanam (every parents must watch their children and give them good guiding if they shows something unusual) It should be started from child hood.

  23. Subida Subash
    February 21, 2013 at 5:07 PM

    Sir, ‘What you wrote is absolutely right,But nowadays life became so difficult, being a working mother I’m always worried about my child’s safety even though she is having a babysitter.Here in Mumbai it was more safe than in Kerala ,because here companies ,factories work for 24 hrs.with Shift system.But women travel to and fro early in the morning as well as in night.Trains are crowded even at 12.00 pm night.But after the Delhi case people are scared and at the same time alert also.Sir every body should act against this.But recently the college girl who act courageously towards the boys who abused her ,got what in return .Our law filed a case against her.It is simply discouraging the girls who possess will power and strength.This is absolutely wrong. For that our constitutional laws also should Change and act …..Kash sabhi log aapke jaise soche tho………

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  25. February 21, 2013 at 6:18 PM

    Hai laleta

  26. renjini
    February 21, 2013 at 6:50 PM

    its very nice to read wrote about corrent situation.i think your words can influece the people who are doing such things.keep going laletta.hope 4 the best india…………(god bless you and family laletta)

  27. Femin Francis
    February 21, 2013 at 8:26 PM


  28. Nandan
    February 21, 2013 at 10:11 PM

    Why the electrician even after getting arrested dont have fear in his face? Why no guilty feeling in his face? He was walking like he is going picnic with police. He is not afraid of our Law or punishment? Ultimately he has no fear of God?

    I am so much bothered. I am so much worried. Now a days i am not watching news channels, i am not reading news papers. I am afraid. I am depressed Laletta. I want to cry. God.. Please do something! Protect our sisters. Please..

  29. Hari Lal
    February 21, 2013 at 11:30 PM

    Swantham pennine thallippoyal krooran, penninte thallu kondal aanathamillathavan, pennu mattoralodu nilkkunnathu chodhyam cheythal samsaya rogi, chodhyam cheythillenkil penkonthan,
    Veettil kayarathe karangi nadannal nadu nirangi, veettil irunnal adukkala nirangi,
    makkalodu deshyappettal kannil chorayillathavan, konjichal vashalakkunnavan,
    Pennine jolikku vittal penninte panam thinnunnavan, jolikku vittillenkil Male chauvinist………
    Oru paridhi vare ithum seriyalle laletta….

  30. February 22, 2013 at 12:54 AM

    Relevant piece indeed! But its a pity that we always try to find a solution only when the situation is so bad that one or two measures or one or two years is not enough as it has gone from bad to worse! Ancient Indian civilization might have bad examples also but predominantly we had good examples and goodness prevailed (otherwise we wouldnt have followed it till now!). Rajesh’s comment and point is really worth noticing here. Like he said, we have tried to mix Ayurveda and Alopathy (East n West) and ended up in a disgusting dirty and harmful curry. We should have taken the good points but we took all theirs and mixed it with all of ours!. We should have created awareness about sex (without considering it dirty or keep it under the carpet) We had this awareness in ancient India and we still kept our respect intact!! Amazing culture to do both the feat together!, But we have to accept that that is dead and our current civilization is a rotten shadow of that ancient thing and dont blow horns unnecessarily at least for majority of our lifestyles (not just in India). But unfortunately the moment a sexual topic comes up, its either seen as bad or a moment to say unwanted dirty things, not for educating our youngsters or older people even! (this started somewhere in our history and interaction with foreign elements as earlier sexual and feminine/male attributes were not considered dirty but to be read, understood and considered holy!).

    Anyways back to the present. We need a four pronged attack. Knowledge has to be spread on how sex is a beautiful thing if done with the consent of the partner under a marriage and that the act is not limited to just ‘a release’! It is a part of love and there are many many higher stages where you can really lift your happiness, respect, love etc for one another and for those ‘many stages’ you need a permanent member who can share and learn along with you. Just with a new person or a stranger without any chemistry, this turns into a limited and very often a dirty act!. These knowledge datas and much more! have to be taught to our youngsters. Slowly they would believe in marriages, one-partner life-styles and its importance for long term sexual and mental development! But that is for long-term changes in our country.

    For now, we need a drastic cure. PLEASE I beg people who are reading this to buy ‘pepper sprays’ or ‘stun guns’ for anybody who requires it and make them practise it! Keep it where it can be readily accessible (not deeply hidden!) and also practise taking it out in a quick movement. It is as cheap as 500 Rs. Do it now! Dont be lazy or put it for next month or next year!. It is available in India or online.
    Another slightly long-term measure is to make martial arts/Kalari or such defence mechanisms ‘COMPULSORY’ for females more than males! I am not saying forget dance practise or passing grades, but if you can at least show 50% interest you take in educating your female associates to learn dance, then we would have very highly skilled girls who can tackle more than 2 strong males or 5 drunkard males!!!
    One more thing what is happening in our country is the revolution for new stricter rules. While that is good, we also need ‘implementation’ of rules. See, rules/laws are always good in India, even Pakistan follows stricter rules, but they dont have a good record as Saudi for example because we have a ‘democracy’ here and our law is slow and less rigid to ensure rights n freedom to all innocents. But nobody implements them here properly (time taken, corruption, influential people misusing the law etc) unlike in many western countries where rapes are there,but the female mostly gets justice in time even in a democracy! Here due to the corruption, nobody is scared of such laws! Introducing new stricter rules,though good and ofcourse we have to support it!, but its only half the battle! We can only pray for uncorrupted officers and law keepers even with good new rules.(But still we have to support the movement to bring stricter rules, at least it is a start!)

    In the meantime, educate the male child/brothers/friends in this area and the evil in rapes, getting sprays, practising martial arts regularly etc are very very important and URGENT measures to take! It would also be better if the ‘route-map’ of the female is always known to the elders/guardians. Exactly where she is and with whom should always be readily known. It would also be advisable not to travel at nights or isolated times/areas even if you are with an adult male! Sorry but thats our pitiful situation now! Last but not the least, if God-forbid someone is a victim, please dont make it seem that all is lost. I swear on God that not all males would consider you tainted because a dog licked you or a snake bit you!, in fact real males would respect you more that you have survived such a disgusting hard ordeal! Make her regain her confidence, love her and tell her to fight for justice!(unless you really feel its better to keep your ‘image’, stay silent and see those criminals smiling at you !)

  31. Pratheepkumar,K
    February 22, 2013 at 3:21 AM

    Lalettan ezhuthiyath valare seri yaanu..manushyanu manushyane thanne thirichariyaan kazhiyatha kaalamaanu..banthangalkku polum vilayilla..deivam veendum mannil varenda kaalam aduthirikkunnu…..

  32. Sajeer M.K
    February 22, 2013 at 4:39 AM

    very nice thought,your wrote about current situation.we will hope again

  33. Vipinlal
    February 22, 2013 at 10:14 AM

    Nice words…Laletta…. as always superb blog…

  34. Arunan.m.mavelikara
    February 22, 2013 at 12:02 PM

    Hi Lalettaaa…Lalettan ezhuthana ashayangalku oru jeevan,sathyasandhatha anubhavappedarundu ennum,eppozhum.kazhinja varsham manorama pathrathil oru lekhanam Lalettan ezhuthiyayathu innum orma undu.”Njan entammayeyum,Amma enneyum orupadu snehikkunnu” ennorikkalum Lalettan athil ezhuthiyilla.pakshe ningalkidayile agadha sneham athu vayicha enikku anubhavappettu.annenne Lalettan orikkal koodi karayichu…

  35. February 22, 2013 at 2:59 PM

    Hi Laletta…

    Nice writing..
    I like your song “Aattumanal”.. Hearing it for million times. Your voice is superb and soothing …
    Best Wishes XOXOXO

  36. vinaya
    February 22, 2013 at 3:05 PM

    dear lalettan
    it’s become the land of fake promises,unsafe places to live and die and a place where love dont exist.we the people are changing our beliefs in this unrest world.we are teaching our daughters not the principle of freedom and equality but the saga of distrust,unsafe life and to run away from this world as early as possible.anyway in this busy world u had found some to express your views.its great.iam a strong follower of ur blog.i used to comment on almost everything u blogged.but as usual i didnt get a reply.but this is very touchy.good attempt from ur wishes.

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  38. Rajeesh
    February 23, 2013 at 7:55 PM

    Once again great blog lalettaa…right topic in right time…waiting for next 21st to read ur next blog.

  39. February 25, 2013 at 12:00 PM


    I just stumbled on beautiful piece of thought. I suddenly remembered a blog I read few days back.
    I thought that to share these thoughts in that blog would be an appropriate action –

    “In India we have pictured Shiva as Ardhanarishwar – half-man, half-woman. That is the only symbol of its type all over the world. Shiva – half is man, half is woman; half Shiva and half Parvati, his consort. Half the body is of man and half of woman: Ardhanarishwar, half-man, half-woman. That is the symbol. Lovers join together but on the surface they remain two. Shiva is one, the body is two – half comes from Parvati, half he contributes. The body is two, on the surface the banks are two; in the depth the souls have mingled and become one.

    Or look at it in this way: the room is dark, you bring two lamps into it, two candles into it. Those two candles remain two, but their light has mingled and become one. You cannot separate the light; you cannot say, “This light belongs to this candle and that light belongs to that candle.” Light has mingled and become one. The spirit is like light, the body is the candle. ”

    This is from the world of Osho. No other human being could say these things so simply, so humbly as Osho. An incomparable ‘phenomena’ in the history of mystics, masters – to be me more precise a diamond among ‘essential’ Indians.

    Congratulations on the fabulous win over Bengal tigers.Kerala’s explosive innings was a real treat.
    The way the team jelled into one was so good looking and radiant!!

    There was news today from New Delhi – a 22yr old was shot by two men because she resisted their advance. We have strayed from balanced lifelong back. It is a pathetic situation that we need law enforcing agencies to regulate our lives but what can be done – there is a price for going too much against the ‘norms’ of life , collectively we have trespassed the limits long long back . And the collectivity needs all this judiciary, police and parliament even to walk back to ‘balance’.
    And if they don’t function well it’s all almost all over !!

    I am not against my government or police or bureaucracy. I have always respected the best of
    them and I am aware totally among 195 nations + other parts of the globe, I live in the most peacefully livable cute part of the world. All I think and want is that this peace should continue and flourish. Apologies for some spelling mistakes and straying away from topic in my earlier comment – I was
    in a sort of rush to write then !!

    I wish a good team effort – among the people, police, judiciary, and parliament – where we all can jell into one and live the spirit of India and spread the joys of life. Few moments back the Oscars was announced –
    good team work again did the magic – Argo, Lincoln, Silver Linings Playbook, Life of Pi – humanity has few more good things to cherish and celebrate!



  40. Mujeeb Rahman
    February 25, 2013 at 8:25 PM

    Best one

  41. Surya Narayanan
    February 25, 2013 at 8:34 PM

    Amazing words. Ellavarum ete vayikkanam. Valare manoharamayirikkunnu laletta. Iniyum angayude vilappetta varikalkkayi kattirikkunnu.

  42. kumar g pillai
    February 25, 2013 at 8:54 PM

    നിയമം കൊണ്ട് ഇതിനൊന്നും ഒരു പരിഹാരം ആകില്ല …..ലാലേട്ടന്‍ പറഞ്ഞ പോലെ സ്ത്രീ പുരുഷ ബന്ടതിന്റെ പവിത്രതയും അവരവരുടെ കടമകളും തിരിച്ചറിയണം………..എന്നാല്‍ മാത്രമേ ഇതിനൊക്കെ ഒരു പരിഹാരം ഉണ്ടാകു ……..ലാലേട്ടന് എല്ലാ ഭാവുകങ്ങളും …….

  43. sophy magal
    February 25, 2013 at 9:04 PM

    chintha deeptham…

  44. salykathu
    February 25, 2013 at 9:26 PM

    a nice start ,mohan Lal.congrats

  45. Unnikrishnan PS Cherthala
    February 25, 2013 at 10:00 PM

    Dear laletta….
    aaadyamaayanu njan blog’il oru comment idunnathu, athu lalettante post’il aaayathil orupadu santhosham…
    sri.Eshahaque Eswaramangalam enna angayude suhruthu innu post cheytha angayude oru jeevitha kaaazchappaadu kandu.
    very nice and interesting…
    ethayalum athu ezhuthiya lalettanum publish cheytha EM-jikkum abhinandhanangal…

    all the best etta…



  46. swagath
    February 25, 2013 at 10:24 PM

    A commited actor should be a social reformer also. he has the responsibility to take measures to improvise the phases of amiability , humanity , solidarity etc of the present society .by words You done it very well…den in practical side also

  47. safeer
    February 25, 2013 at 11:10 PM

    എന്തിനാണ്‌ സ്ത്രീകൾക്കും പുരുഷന്മാർക്കും വേറെ ,വേറെ ലോകങ്ങൾ സൃഷ്ടിക്കുന്നത്‌…. ലോകം പുരുഷൻ അടക്കി വാഴുന്നു അതിൽ കുറച്ചു സ്ഥലം അബലകൾക്കും എന്നാണൊ? അത്‌ ആത്മവിശ്വാസമില്ലാത്തതു കൊണ്ടു തോന്നുന്നതാണ്‌. അങ്ങനെയൊരു സൗജന്യം വേണ്ട എന്നാണെന്റെ പക്ഷം. എന്റെ ലോകത്ത്‌ പുരുഷന്മാർ സ്ത്രികളുടെ ശത്രുക്കളല്ല. മറിച്ച്‌ ജീവിതത്തിന്റെ ഭാഗമാണ്‌. പുരുഷന്മാരും സ്ത്രീകളും, മൃഗങ്ങളും, പൂക്കളും. എല്ലാം ഉള്ളലോകത്തിന്റെ നടുക്കിരിക്കാനാണ്‌ എനിക്കിഷ്ടം. ലോകത്തിലെ ഒരു മനുഷ്യനായി.

  48. Rajasekhar
    February 26, 2013 at 9:20 AM

    eee oru chintha ellavarilum valarthanam laalettaa…. ee oru massage laalettante oru padathiloode njangal pratheekshikkunnu….

  49. February 26, 2013 at 9:35 AM

    eee oru chintha ellavarilum valarthanam laalettaa…. ee oru massage laalettante oru padathiloode njangal pratheekshikkunnu….

  50. RAMESH
    February 26, 2013 at 10:08 AM


  51. unnikrishnan
    February 26, 2013 at 12:34 PM

    കാര്യങ്ങള്‍ പറയാന്‍ നമ്മള്‍ ഒട്ടും മടിക്കണ്ട…..

  52. Sona Raj
    February 26, 2013 at 1:39 PM

    what a beautiful thought which you interpret in very simple language….I got a hidden confidence for each foots of my life.For surviving and facing the challenges in the upcoming days in carrier and family. Thanks alot .

  53. basheer
    February 27, 2013 at 12:06 AM

    സ്ത്രീയെ കേവലം ശരീരമായി കാണുന്ന വ്യവസ്ഥയാണ് സ്ത്രീപീഡനത്തിന് വലവിരിക്കുന്നത്. സിനിമയുള്‍പ്പെടെയുള്ള മാധ്യമങ്ങള്‍ക്ക് വേണ്ടത് പ്രേക്ഷകരെ ഹരംകൊള്ളിക്കുന്ന സ്ത്രീശരീരങ്ങളാണ്. പ്രണയത്തില്‍ പോലും സ്നേഹമല്ല, ലൈംഗിക ചോദനകള്‍ക്കാണ് പ്രാമുഖ്യം. വസ്ത്രം പരമാവധി ധരിച്ച പുരുഷനോടൊപ്പം അല്‍പവസ്ത്രധാരികളായ സ്ത്രീകള്‍ അരങ്ങിലെത്തുന്നത് പുരുഷമേധാവിത്വത്തിന്റെ താല്‍പര്യമാണ്. മദ്യവും ലഹരിയും ലാഭക്കൊതിയും സുഖലോലുപതയും മുഖമുദ്രയാക്കിയ സമൂഹത്തിന്റെ അനിവാര്യപതനമാണ് നമുക്കുചുറ്റും കാണുന്നതെന്നറിയുക. അതൊന്നും കാണാതെ, സ്ത്രീ ദേവിയാണ് അര്‍ധനാരിയാണ് തുടങ്ങീ വാചകക്കസര്‍ത്തുകള്‍ വേശ്യയുടെ ചാരിത്യ്രപ്രസംഗത്തെ ഓര്‍മിപ്പിക്കുന്നു.

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  55. tresa joseph
    March 1, 2013 at 3:16 AM

    You are really good at everything!!!
    Love to listen “Attumanal” in your voice!!
    thank you for the love letter.

  56. March 2, 2013 at 2:11 PM

    good words.mahattaya ee bharathambayude manam eniyengilum namukkororutarkkum samrakshichoode?

  57. Sindhu
    March 2, 2013 at 3:39 PM

    ബഹുമാനപ്പെട്ട ലാലേട്ടന്,
    സ്ത്രീകള്‍ ഇന്നനുഭവിക്കുന്ന ദുരിതത്തിന് പല കാരണങ്ങള്‍ ഉണ്ടാവാം .ഒരു കാരണം കുടുംബത്തില്‍ അവളനുഭവിക്കുന്ന അവഗണന തന്നെ.പല കുടുംബങ്ങളിലും ആണ്‍കുട്ടികള്‍ക്ക് കൂടുതല്‍ പ്രാധാന്യം നല്‍കുകയും പെണ്‍കുട്ടികള്‍ ഒതുങ്ങി കഴിയേണ്ടാവരാണെന്ന് ഉപദേശിക്കുകയും ചെയ്യുന്നു.ചെറിയ പ്രായത്തില്‍ പതിയുന്ന ഇത്തരം ധാരണകള്‍ വളര്‍ന്നു വലുതായാലും ഉയര്‍ന്ന സ്ഥാനങ്ങളില്‍ എത്തിയാലും പുരുഷന്‍റെ മനസ്സില്‍ നിന്ന് മായുന്നില്ല.പെണ്‍കുട്ടികളാവട്ടെ, ഏറ്റവും അടുത്ത് കിട്ടുന്ന അവസരത്തില്‍ സ്വാതന്ത്ര്യത്തിലേക്ക് രക്ഷപ്പെടാന്‍ ശ്രമിക്കുന്നു.അതിനു അവള്‍ കണ്ടെത്തുന്ന വഴികള്‍ പക്ഷെ പലപ്പോഴും അവള്‍ക്കു തന്നെ വിനയാകുന്നു…

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  60. anish
    March 10, 2013 at 11:32 AM

    കാര്യമൊക്കെ ശരി… പക്ഷെ ലാലേട്ടാ, ഏതു രീതിയില്‍ ഉള്ള ബഹുമാനം ആണ് അങ്ങ് ഉദേശിക്കുന്നത്… അര്‍ദ്ധനാരി സങ്കല്പതിലോ അതോ സഹോദരി സങ്കല്പതിലോ നമ്മള്‍ പര സ്ത്രീകളെ കാണേണ്ടത്…. അര്‍ദ്ധനാരിയില്‍ കാമം ഒരു വിഷയമല്ലേ… മനസ്സില്‍ കാമവുമായി ഒരു സ്ത്രീയെ സമീപിക്കുനതും തെറ്റല്ലേ…. സഹോദരി സങ്കല്‍പം ഒരു myth അല്ലെ? ആര്‍ക്കു അങ്ങനെ പറ്റും…? ശരിക്കും മനസ്സില്‍ എന്ത് തെറ്റ് തോന്നിയാലും അത് മനസ്സില്‍ തന്നെ വച്ച് പ്രവര്തികമാക്കതിരിക്കുക അല്ലെ ഒരു മനുഷ്യന്റെ ധര്‍മം. selfcontrol അല്ലെ നമ്മുടെ പോരഖ്‌ഴ്മ…..?????

  61. Ajeesh
    March 10, 2013 at 12:09 PM

    A kind of worst thing has happened in Delhi.. I never blame those victims fully… Our society is fully responsible for this disaster… Whn I go out of my room… I am forced to see half naked women figures on the cinema poster which is been sticked around all the walls.. All medias selling her body and earns money thru advertisement.. As they knows the fact that women body is the best tool to sell their products.. I feel shame.. I stoped going outside.. Mobile operators also started sending messages for dating and hot talks at just 5ps/sec.. If you open the newspaper.. All the rape cases are there in the first Page.. promoting these news will in turn increase their circulation..So I stopped reading newspaper.. I am aware of one thing that all these things will affect my mind at least by a small percentage… Worst things u will see when you turn on ur television…. So I gave my television to my frnd.. So my dear frnds.. Please think. Who is responsible for Delhi incident.. Me and ..

  62. Biju Chengannur
    March 10, 2013 at 12:22 PM

    നമസ്ക്കാരം ലാലേട്ടാ, വളരെ വലിയ വിപത്തിലെക്ക് നീങ്ങികൊണ്ടിരിക്കുന്ന ഒരു സമൂഹ വിപത്തിനെ കുറിച്ച് സംസാരിക്കാന്‍ താങ്കള്‍ കാട്ടിയ മനസ്ന്നദ്ധത അത് എടുത്തു പറയാതെ വയ്യ, ലാലേട്ടന്‍ വിവരിച്ച ഓരോ കാര്യങ്ങളും പരമാര്‍ത്ഥം തന്നെയാണ്, നന്മ നഷ്ടപെട്ട സമൂഹമായി മാറികഴിഞ്ഞു നമ്മുടെ കേരളം അല്ലെങ്കില്‍ ഭാരതം എന്ന് പറയാന്‍ സാധിക്കില്ല കാരണം ഒരു നല്ല ശതമാനം ആളുകള്‍ വളരെ വേദനയോടെ ഈ സംഭവങ്ങളെ കാണുകയും അതിനെതിരെ പറയുകയും പ്രവര്‍ത്തിക്കുകയും ചെയ്യുന്നുണ്ട്, ഇതില്‍ വളരെ സൂഷ്മതയോടെ കാണേണ്ട ഒരു കാര്യം എന്തെന്നാല്‍ സോഷ്യല്‍ നെറ്റ്‌വര്‍ക്ക് പോലെയുള്ള സംവിധാനങ്ങള്‍ ദുര്യുപയോഗം ചെയ്യുന്ന ഒരു പറ്റം ആള്‍ക്കാരുണ്ട് നമ്മുടെ ഇടയില്‍, ഒരു തരത്തില്‍ പറഞ്ഞാല്‍ പുറമേ കാണാന്‍ കഴിയാത്ത ഒരു തരം മാനസിക നിലയില്‍ ഏറ്റകുരച്ചില്‍ ഉള്ളവര്‍ എന്ന് പറയാം,ഇത്തരം സംവിധാനങ്ങള്‍ ഇവരില്‍ ചെലുത്തുന്ന സ്വാധീനം ചില്ലറയല്ല. അവര്‍ക്കുള്ള ചികല്‍സ വളരെ അത്യാവിശ്യമാണ് അവരെ ഇതിലേക്ക് നയിക്കുന്ന കാരണങ്ങള്‍ അത് കണ്ടെത്തേണ്ടിയിരിക്കുന്നു ആദ്യം അതിനു നമ്മുടെ സൈബര്‍ സെല്‍ കുറച്ചുകൂടി കാര്യക്ഷമാമാകെണ്ടിയിരിക്കുന്നു ഇത് ഒരു പൂര്‍ണമായ ഉപായമല്ല എന്ന് എല്ലാവര്ക്കും അറിയാം എങ്കിലും ഒത്തിരി ഉപായങ്ങളില്‍ ഒന്ന് എന്ന് പറയാന്‍ കഴിയും പലതുള്ളി പെരുവെള്ളം എന്നാണല്ലോ, നമ്മുടെ കാഴ്ചപാടുകള്‍ മാറണം അതിനുള്ള സാമൂഹിക പ്രവര്‍ത്തനങ്ങള്‍ക്ക് തുടക്കം കുറിക്കണം ലൈഗീകവിദ്യാഭ്യാസം ചെറിയ ചെറിയ ക്ലാസുകളില്‍ നിന്നും നമ്മുടെ കുട്ടികള്‍ക്ക് പകര്‍ന്നു നല്‍കാന്‍ നമ്മള്‍ നമ്മുടെ വിദ്ധ്യാഭ്യാസ സംവിധാനത്തില്‍ അല്‍പ്പം മാറ്റങ്ങള്‍ വരുത്തണം ഇതൊക്കെ ഒരു പോംവഴി മാത്രം സമൂഹത്തിന്റെ സമൂലമായ മാറ്റങ്ങള്‍ക്കു ശ്രീ മുരുകന്‍ കാട്ടാക്കട പറഞ്ഞതുപോലെ മങ്ങിയ കാഴ്ചകള്‍ കണ്ടു മടുത്തു കണ്ണടകള്‍ വേണം സര്‍ക്കാര്‍ ചിലവില്‍ അത്തരത്തിലുള്ള മാറ്റങ്ങള്‍ എന്ന കണ്ണടകള്‍ സമൂഹത്തെ ധരിപ്പിക്കാന്‍ ശ്രമം തുടങ്ങേണ്ട സമയം അതിക്രമിച്ചിരിക്കുന്നു
    “യത്ര നാര്യസ്തു പൂജ്യന്തേ രമന്തേ തത്ര ദേവതാഃ ”-മനുസ്മൃതി)

  63. Babu Mankery
    March 10, 2013 at 6:03 PM

    great sir….സ്ത്രീയും പുരുഷനും നമ്മുടെ മുഖത്തെ രണ്ടു കണ്ണുകള്‍ പോലെയാണ് എന്നത് ഇനിയും എപ്പോഴാണ് നാം മനസിലാക്കുക?,

  64. sreekumar Nair
    March 10, 2013 at 10:46 PM

    Hi Laletta,

    I have gone through your last two blogs. The last one was on the good malayali where as the current one is based on the latest trend in Indian Society of rapes and gangrapes.
    Although our society has sometimes compared a woman to a goddess,I think somewhere we have never given her equal status. Another thought which crosses my mind is that we are reluctant to discuss and talk about sex openly.There is definitely a section of society who are compelled to live away from their family or who dont come into contact with girls and ladies often in their life, so they are turned into perverts. Legalising prostitution is also one thought which can be considered.
    Like there are 2 sides to every coin, there are good and bad malayalees. You are lucky to have a house from where yo can see the scenic beauty of nature.
    I hope the fengshui of the house is perfect. Iam from mumbai, and I have got an opportunity to visit your house in Egmore. Wish you all the best.

  65. March 13, 2013 at 12:24 PM

    ശരിയാണ്. കേരളത്തിന്റെ സംഭാവനയും ചെറുതല്ല.
    എല്ലാത്തിനും ഒരു കാലം എന്ന് പറഞ്ഞപോലെ ഇത് പീഡനകാലം.
    നിയമം കൊണ്ടുവന്ന് ശിക്ഷ പരമാവധി ആക്കണോ വേണ്ടയോ എന്നതല്ല ചെറുപ്പക്കാരില്‍ അവബോധം വളര്‍ത്തിയെടുക്കുകയാണ് ആവശ്യം.

  66. March 19, 2013 at 3:22 AM

    എല്ലാം അറിയാമെങ്കിലും അറിയാത്ത ഭാവത്തിൽ നടക്കുന്ന ഞാനടക്കമുള്ള മലയാളികൾ സംസ്കാരശൂന്യർ ആയിത്തീരാതിരിക്കുവാൻ സ്നേഹസന്ദേശങ്ങൾ തുറന്നുകാട്ടുന്ന ലാലേട്ടന് ഒരായിരം അഭിനന്ദനങ്ങൾ….:)

  67. March 19, 2013 at 3:25 AM

    എല്ലാം അറിയാമെങ്കിലും അറിയാത്ത ഭാവത്തിൽ നടക്കുന്ന ഞാനടക്കമുള്ള മലയാളികൾ സംസ്കാരശൂന്യർ ആയിത്തീരാ തിരിക്കുവാൻ സ്നേഹസന്ദേശങ്ങൾ തുറന്നുകാട്ടുന്ന ലാലേട്ടന് ഒരായിരം അഭിനന്ദനങ്ങൾ….:)

  68. March 21, 2013 at 11:05 PM

    പ്രിയ ലാലേട്ടാ,
    തീര്‍ച്ചയായും ഭാരതത്തിന് ഇക്കാര്യത്തില്‍ മഹത്തായ ഒരു പാരമ്പര്യം ഉണ്ടായിരുന്നു.ബ്രിട്ടീഷുകാര്‍ വന്നുപോയെങ്കിലും അത് കുറെയേറെ നിലനില്‍ക്കുകയും ചെയ്തിരുന്നു.എന്നാല്‍ ഇപ്പോള്‍ സംഭവിച്ച ഈ അപചയം ഒരു 15-20 കൊല്ലത്തിനകം വന്ന കുറച്ചു പരിവര്‍ത്തനങ്ങളുടെ ഭാഗമാണെന്നു മനസ്സിലാക്കാന്‍ കഴിയും.ഒരുപക്ഷെ പരോക്ഷമായി globalisation ഒരു കാരണമായി പറയേണ്ടിയും വരും. ഈ transformation കാലത്തിലൂടെ എന്‍റെ കൌമാരവും കടന്നുപോയതിനാല്‍ അതെളുപ്പം മനസ്സിലാകുന്നു. കോളേജ് വിദ്യാഭ്യാസ ഘട്ടത്തിലും കു‌ടെ പഠിക്കുന്നവരെ ഏറിയ കൂറും സഹോദരിമാരായാണ് കണ്ടിരുന്നത്‌.പ്രണയിക്കുന്നത്‌ വിവാഹം കഴിക്കാനുമായിരുന്നു.അല്ലാത്തവ എത്തുന്നത്‌ ആത്മഹത്യയിലും.എന്നാല്‍ തുറന്നിട്ട വാതിലുകളിലുടെ കടന്നുവന്ന വിദേശ ചാനലുകളും ഫാഷന്‍ ഷോകളും സുന്ദരീമത്സരങ്ങളും സ്ത്രീകള്‍ക്ക് ‘ഇങ്ങനെയും’ ഒരു മുഖമുണ്ടെന്ന് കാണിച്ചു തന്നു. അമ്മയില്‍നിന്നും ദേവിയില്‍ നിന്നും അവര്‍ ‘ചരക്കുകള്‍’ ആയി മാറി.internet പഠിപ്പുമുറിയിലും വന്നതും പല വനിതാ മാസികകളുടെ സ്വാധീനവും പെണ്‍കുട്ടികളെയും മായാലോകത്തു കൊണ്ടെത്തിച്ചു.അവയവങ്ങളുടെ മുഴുപ്പിലും തൊലിയുടെ മിനുസത്തിലും’സ്ത്രീത്വം’ദര്‍ശിച്ചു.അതോടെ അവര്‍ ‘എളുപ്പം കിട്ടാവുന്ന ചരക്കുകള്‍’ ആയി. ആത്മഹത്യകളുടെ എണ്ണം അബോര്‍ഷനു വഴിമാറി. പരസ്പരവിശ്വാസം നഷ്ടപ്പെട്ടു..കുടുംബങ്ങള്‍ തകര്‍ന്നു… കുഞ്ഞുങ്ങളും വൃദ്ധരും പോലും സുരക്ഷിതരല്ലാതായി.ഒരുതുള്ളി രക്തം ചിന്താതെ ഒരു വെടിപോലും പൊട്ടിക്കാതെ ഒരു അധിനിവേശം. സാംസ്കാരികാധിനിവേശം.

  69. Kilingaru Immo Narayanan
    March 22, 2013 at 10:43 AM

    Dear Mr. Mohanlal….

    I am Narayanan from Coimbatore. I happened to read your blog.Regarding the atrocities committed against women, girls and small girl children, I would like to place an important piece of information which I feel is the reason for increased harassment against women and that is PORNOGRAPHY and Vulgar Exposure of women thru TV.Pornography in the internet is linked to these type of results.Just give a search in google and you will know the magnitude of the different pornographic sites in the internet.You are an influential person and if you think it good please start the fight against PORNOGRAPHY and do something good for the coming generations…If interested please contact me over my mobile 09364521303 or 09042013161. We can discuss.

  70. sindu
    March 22, 2013 at 1:24 PM

    god blesss you…

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